I just finished developing the SlideNSwap Controllers plugin!
What I simply did was adding 3 buttons on hover: back, pause and hover.
Example Page

a CSS file is attached to this plugin, I recommend to change it as much as you want, I just did something really basic.

Requirements:

• jQuery (used 1.5.1, but probably works with older versions)
• jQuery Background Position plugin
• jQuery SlideNSwap plugin
  

Download slideNSwap Controllers Plugin:
the JS File
the CSS File

github page
jQuery plugin Page